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MARIE CLAIRE RELATIONSHIP專欄:新一年,別再辜負自己


MARIE CLAIRE RELATIONSHIP專欄:新一年,別再辜負自己

文章由香港Lunch Actually創辦人兼CEO Violet Lim執筆

不經不覺2018年已過了一個月,狗年也快要來臨,面對新的一年,你是抱著隨遇而安的心態,還是你會為自己的未來好好作準備?

在訂立新一年的目標前,我總習慣回顧過往一年的大小事情,我慶幸自己有我愛惜的家人、好友、工作夥伴及一班好員工。更感恩自己能擁有一段美滿的婚姻、幸福的家庭、自己喜歡的事業。

當然我不會只沉醉於過去的樂事當中,人生不如意事十常八九,最重要的並不是成功或失敗,而是你從中學到甚麼,讓自己有機會成為更好的自己。我遇見過不少單身多年的會員,到30多歲的時候,他們開始為自己的愛情著急,更常常在朋友聚會中抱怨自己沒有辦法擴闊生活圈子,遇不上好的對象,不滿親戚們一年復一年追問自己的感情狀況,但其實他們正是自己還是單身的原因。

我有一位好朋友曾經在Facebook宣言,要在一年內找到一個穩定的伴侶,結果一年後,她達成了這個目標。你認為如果她單單作宣言,沒有行動,她的計劃能如期完成嗎?

很多時候,我們討厭別人不守承諾,但我們偏偏就是那位經常辜負自己的人。有多少個以往你所訂立的目標,至今還未實現?我們有想要的東西,但只有少數人會主動去爭取。

所以單身的你與其繼續怨天尤人,倒不如積極改變自己的生活模式,就在今個情人節、新年前,寫下行動計劃,訂下確實的目標。我常說約會只是一個數字遊戲,因條件差而單身的人不多,但因沒有主動出撃而單身的人,大有人在。鼓勵大家在遇上挫折時,不要氣餒,即管從中學習,逐漸改進自己的約會技巧及心態,我相信你有一天一定會找到幸福。


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